Have you heard of the saying "When the student is ready, the teacher appears"? Most have. I believe there is a different spin to look at on this old proverb. Twist it around for a second and read it as "When the teacher is ready, the student appears". It's meaning changes, but perhaps not by much.
Consider another truism, that we teach what we most need to learn. By teaching whatever it is to another, we echo that wisdom to others around us, who in turn are the reflection of ourselves.
This last weekend I worked at a customer site for 18 hours straight, together with one of their employees who is a wonderful individual, even though he is somewhat trapped in the clutches of the material world. Ultimately he will figure it out.
Working together required us to be very technical and focussed for short periods of time, followed by long periods with nothing to do other than talk, while we waited for the results to come back. In that time we shared much and the conversation easily drifted to philosophy and spiritual matters.
"When the teacher is ready, the student appears" serves a few purposes as a subject. First as a reminder that we all are teachers, whether we choose to realise this or not, as well as being students. A good student will push a teacher to articulate and analyse their own repetitious teachings in new ways, allowing the teacher in turn to learn from the student. Therefore the second point to note is that the relationship is not one sided. There are other points, perhaps you have a few to share in the comments.
During the passing of this evening of working with this wonderful fellow, he delved into my interpretation of the known and the unknowable, and caused me to remember that no matter how much you desire to help someone, it is never possible to force someone to accept your view. This I knew from experience, however, the reminder was there and appreciated. For this I am grateful.
As we talked, the more I saw that although he had the capacity to release himself more from his trappings, and review his life to the path he desired, that he was not yet ready to do so. The right was not mine to push it and I did not. I take this as a sign of progress and growth within me.
A good student, will always attract good teachers or those that are relevant to the point in space-time in which that individual has chosen to locate themselves.
Today I am grateful for all my teachers that have been, will been and are in my life, as well as grateful for all the students, obvious and not-so-obvious, that have crossed my path. I bless them all, and you my reader as you move on through your day.
Peace,
-Mikel
3 inspired comments:
Earlier, some two years back, I thought I had to have a spiritual teacher. What I have realized these past few months, is that it's not really a teacher I want so badly, it's a friend. In a friendly relationship, both partners play simulateously the role of teacher and student. Everything is shared. Since learning this, I have felt more at ease with myself.
Sophia,
You raise a good point, being the view of the word teacher. In the west teachers are often on pedestals, perhaps it is no mistake that teacher and preacher rhyme.
Having friends to learn from is definitely beneficial. Someone who gets to know you deeply, that you have a strong connection with, may even be spiritual kin... I think the connection is very important to the whole dynamic.
Something to wonder often, or at least I think should be wondered in such a relationship is "who is the teacher and who is the student", if both are giving and taking.. it can be a very beneficial relationship and only get stronger.
I have this connection with a very few people myself. These are the people I call my friends, they are spread across the world. If you can find it, grab it.
Peace,
-Mikel
dear loving spirit,
though this is religious in nature and i claim no one religion i found it enjoyable and a pleasent twist on a well known prayer i fond this on this site:
http://www.godumentary.com/index2.htm
and it goes like this :P
Sent to us by Robert
THE LORD'S PRAYER
Our Father Who Art In Heaven.
Yes?
Don't interrupt me. I'm praying.
But -- you called ME!
Called you?
No, I didn't call you.
I'm praying.
Our Father who art in Heaven.
There -- you did it again!
Did what?
Called ME.
You said,
"Our Father who art in Heaven"
Well, here I am.
What's on your mind?
But I didn't mean anything by it.
I was, you know, just saying my prayers for the day.
I always say the Lord's Prayer.
It makes me feel good,
kind of like fulfilling a duty.
Well, all right.
Go on.
Okay, Hallowed be thy name .
.. Hold it right there.
What do you mean by that?
By what?
By "Hallowed be thy name"?
It means, it means . . good grief,
I don't know what it means.
How in the world should I know?
It's just a part of the prayer.
By the way, what does it mean?
It means honored, holy, wonderful.
Hey, that makes sense.
I never thought about what 'hallowed' meant before.
Thanks.
Thy Kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in Heaven.
Do you really mean that?
Sure, why not?
What are you doing about it?
Doing? Why, nothing, I guess.
I just think it would be kind of neat if you got control,
of everything down here like you have up there.
We're kinda in a mess down here you know.
Yes, I know;
but, have I got control of you?
Well, I go to church.
That isn't what I asked you.
What about your bad temper?
You've really got a problem there, you know.
And then there's the way you spend your money --
all on yourself.
And what about the kind of books you read?
Now hold on just a minute!
Stop picking on me!
I'm just as good as some of the rest of those people at church!
Excuse ME.
I thought you were praying
for my will to be done.
If that is to happen,
it will have to start with the ones
who are praying for it.
Like you -- for example.
Oh, all right. I guess I do have some hang-ups.
Now that you mention it,
I could probably name some others.
So could I.
I haven't thought about it very much until now,
but I really would like to cut out some of those things.
I would like to, you know, be really free..
Good.
Now we're getting somewhere..We'll work together -- You and ME.
I'm proud of You.
Look, Lord, if you don't mind,
I need to finish up here.
This is taking a lot longer than it usually does.
Give us this day, our daily bread.
You need to cut out the bread.
You're overweight as it is.
Hey, wait a minute! What is this?
Here I was doing my religious duty,
and all of a sudden you break in
and remind me of all my hang-ups.
Praying is a dangerous thing.
You just might get what you ask for.
Remember,
you called ME -- and here I am.
It's too late to stop now.
Keep praying. ( . .. pause . . )
Well, go on.
I'm scared to.
Scared? Of what?
I know what you'll say
Try ME.
Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us.
What about Ann?
See? I knew it!
I knew you would bring her up!
Why, Lord, she's told lies about me, spread stories.
She never paid back the money she owes me.
I've sworn to get even with her!
But -- your prayer --
What about your prayer?
I didn't -- mean it.
Well, at least you're honest.
But, it's quite a load carrying around all that bitterness
and resentment isn't it?
Yes, but I'll feel better as soon as I get even with her.
Boy, have I got some plans for her.
She'll wish she had never been born.
No, you won't feel any better.
You'll feel worse.
Revenge isn't sweet.
You know how unhappy you are --
Well, I can change that.
You can? How?
Forgive Ann.
Then, I'll forgive you;
And the hate and the sin,
will be Ann's problem -- not yours.
You will have settled the problem
as far as you are concerned.
Oh, you know, you're right.
You always are.
And more than I want revenge,
I want to be right with You . . (sigh).
All right . all right . .
I forgive her.
There now!
Wonderful!
How do you feel?
Hmmmm. Well, not bad.
Not bad at all!
In fact, I feel pretty great!
You know, I don't think I'll go to bed uptight tonight.
I haven't been getting much rest, you know.
Yeah, I know.
But, you're not through with your prayer are you? Go on.
Oh, all right.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Good! Good! I'll do that.
Just don't put yourself in a place
where you can be tempted.
What do you mean by that? You know what I mean.
Yeah. I know.
Okay.
Go ahead. Finish your prayer.
For Thine is the kingdom,
and the power,
and the glory forever.
Amen.
Do you know what would bring me glory --
What would really make me happy?
No, but I'd like to know.
I want to please you now.
I've really made a mess of things.
I want to truly follow you.
I can see now how great that would be.
So, tell me . . .
How do I make you happy?
YOU just did.
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