The Personality Of When

I cant say exactly when or how I came to this realisation but there are some things I know for sure. One of the cornerstones as it were and there are more than 4 corners to knowing who you are, where you are and when you are; not forgetting how you are!

No matter where you find yourself, up or down, left or right, its sometimes natural to wonder how long the moment might last or 'when' it might end. It's up to you of course, but that's not always plain to see. Sometimes it's like looking in the fridge for the butter for half an hour, ultimately seeing it right in front of you.

'When' is an interesting question prefix. It almost denotes an instant attachment to the outcome of the answer, whether positive or negative. "When will this be over?", "When will this fantastic moment end?".

They key pointer in a 'when-moment', in your inner talk, is that it should reflect back at you assuming you are open to it. Asking 'when' puts things outside of your control and creates an illusion. Maybe you need that comfort in that moment or some sense of security?

Those 'when' questions, when :) they come up; should give you pause and allow you too look back within. Ask yourself "What is it that I am scared of taking control of?" "What is it that I allow to hold me back?" "Why am I giving my-self over to something else?"

So "when" when comes into the picture, relax and imagine that you are the creator of your paradigm and that you do indeed choose the actors and the script. Simply write that lack of control or perception of it out of the play altogether.

If anything, you will feel more empowered "when" you do. :)